First thanks to all specially to way75 for his useful tips
i took what written in all these nice posts and built modified drivers to work with clones without replacing any files and to install like those for original
Latest drivers 14-10-2009 modified for dm800 clones
what i have done,just used my little skill in building the driver package again
i have two driver packages on for ss69 dreambox and other for ss70 and above
in ss69-dreambox driver i have replaced only the tuner driver file with the one came with antituner pack and i left the one for cardreader.
in the second modified package for ss70+above-dreamboxes i replaced the two files and rebuild the package again
to install simply by dcc-upload packages to any image in flash,
remote control problem and tuner problems and cardreader problems will be fixed(except for those with ss69 cardreader probelm will not be fixed)
test them at your own risk
regards